A submissive girlfriend of mine described me as an elegant, Hitchcock blonde, the kind of woman who seems far too refined to ever be cruel to you.

I’ve made some dear friends and lovers in the five years since I first met another dominant woman to take me under her wing. Although I’m quite busy with a creative and demanding career now, I don’t want to close the door entirely on potential new playthings. (If that’s not how I know you yet, when I’m standing over you, that’s what I’ll tell you.)

The reason you may not find as many photos of me now is that I do lead a different life than when I first began, and have more of a desire to protect the privacy of my friends than have myself recognized. Me, I have no shame, but I deeply respect the boundary between our trust and the public sphere. I can say that I’m in my late twenties or so, am well-traveled, and overly educated on both coasts and a bit overseas. I stand 5’4” in my bare feet, and am quite slender with a classic hourglass figure, impeccably styled and groomed, with the softest fairest skin. I’m more prone to high fashion than high fetish, though I love to blur the lines and wear latex with my Loboutins.

I once called myself a modern libertine, a play on the classic Sadeian woman theorized as one in ruthless pursuit of pleasure — only I tend to get off on the mind as much as the body. I’ll leave filling in the details of my philosophy until I’m getting to know you.

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Before you write, spend some time reading my blog, which is the best way to anticipate what I might do to and with you. My email address is missavasaint[@]gmail.com, and I tend to reply within a day or so.

When you decide to write, please don’t feel any need to run down a checklist of interests or references. The most exhilarating part of meeting you in letter form first you is hearing your stories (and inventing new ones with you). Write me a very good one (please note that I do not offer any sexual services) and let me know when you have time to meet me. I travel a good deal, and can be found in San Francisco, Chicago and New York most often, where you’ll join me in one of the exclusive, private playspaces to which I have a key, or, I’ll come to you.

An introductory meeting is US$500, for which you should allow 2 hours. I also welcome introductions over an evening out, for which I’m offered a tribute of US$1000. For future meetings, I remain quite flexible, and welcome invitations to travel. I also have entered into long-term engagements lasting months and now, over two years with one dear friend, where we may create adventures all our own.